One small step for me November 11, 2009

So in the middle of the madness that is now my life and my mini hiatus from most people/things. I have decided to regrow my hair. On 12/31/08 i cut it all off, from a nice healthy shoulder length to what at first could be described as  a “lamb chop baby cousin” kind of a do, [...]

Here we go again – many ramblings… November 10, 2009

They say that your family is the one that will fuck you the hardest and hurt you the most, boy they were NOT lying. Don’t get me wrong, i’m no innocent bystander, a few years back I did my sister dirty. There were reasons behind that, but nonetheless I did do her dirty. But this [...]

It’s been a LONG time September 27, 2009

I was not sure that i’d ever return to this blog. So much has been going on I don’t even know where to start. I had very good intentions for 2009, but it quickly became apparent that this might very well be my worst year yet. Things just came crashing down on me and all [...]

Two Red Envelopes February 26, 2009

“What goes around comes around”
“U think u kno but u don’t kno everything”
Yeah I got that first Red Envelope, what was really your point again? I know what I need to know, nothing more beyond that.
Girl; It happened to me could to you years from now just leave well enough alone not independant [...]

January 2009 February 2, 2009

It’s been a while since i’ve blogged, so let me catch you up. 1/15 I left a job of a year and 3 months. While I’ll miss some of the folks, it was a sinking ship and I needed to get off as I can not swim. I went to Vegas for 5 days…good Lord [...]

Oh me…Oh my… January 20, 2009

What a great day today is 1/20/09. The inaguration of our 44th president – Barack Obama. Oh I feel the tingles in my stomach, I can not even begin to imagine what he and his family must be feeling this morning and they awake on such a momentus day. Let us keep this man in [...]

I truly feel blessed January 14, 2009

If you’ve been reading this blog, you know that other than a few ups (ok a BIG up…finally earning my degree), things were kinda shitty in ‘08. Ok, yes, in hindsight, things could have been much worse so I do thank the Man above for watching out for me. You may also have read that the [...]

Ahh to be 21 again January 14, 2009

Today is my neice’s 21st birthday and all day I remienced about when I turned 21. I was mother to a 1 year old and had recently moved into my very first  apartment. I just knew that my 21st birthday was going to be this big shabang…but nope, it was just my little one and [...]

What a way to go! (part deux) January 2, 2009

So after having  a very down 1st day of the year, i decided that I was going to call the salon and give them a piece of my mind. The front desk girl answered, told me that the owner would not be back until Tuesday but heard my complaint and sympatized. She remembered seeing me [...]

“Never make someone a priority when you are only an option for them.” December 17, 2008

The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve.   Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others, it increases your  mediocrity.   An important attribute in successful people is their impatience with negative thinking and negative acting people.   As you  grow, your associates will change.   Some of your friends will not want you to go on.   [...]