Liars March 18, 2009

When did it become necessary to lie every single time one opened their mouth? When and why? I just don’t get it, why is telling the truth no longer in style? I mean a little white lie here and there is not that bad, but an outright, straight faced lie? Why? I just can’t deal [...]

WOW March 15, 2009

It has been said, first time it’s YOUR bad, second time, it’s MY bad…but guess what…there will NOT be a third time. You fucked up, BIG time…beat your fucking feet, kick rocks. Not even man enough to to admit when you fucked up…again.
Forget I exsist, loose my number…

I’m not afraid of… March 9, 2009

Lions and tigers and bears…but I’m afraid of loving you. My cuzzo wrote that somewhere and I could never figure out where she got it from but this weekend I saw the Jazmine Sullivan video and all of the pieces of the puzzle came to me (yeah yeah cuzzo, I know I’m slow). After being [...]

Am I? December 17, 2008

So it seems that just about everyone I know has a comment on my single status. Most of them married folks mind you. It’s been a little while now that i’ve been told that I need to lower my standards. While visiting an old friend in a country far far away, i was told that [...]

i’M BAFFLED!?! December 12, 2008

So last night a male friend of mine texts me to tell me that he’s going to be a baby daddy again. First of all, i despise that term…yuck ill gross! why not say, i’m having a child? why would you be proud to announce that you are going to be a “baby daddy” again? [...]

Things that make you go hmmmm November 26, 2008

Remember that from the arsenio hall show?  lol…well i know a few posts back i said that i was done with men until further notice, but having this long trip coming up and needing a ride to the airport, i has asked a friend to take me (before my revelation) so he comes over and [...]

Sex… September 16, 2008

A few years back I entertained the idea of a 3some. It was the summer before I turned 30 and I figured that if I was ever going to do it, this might be the time. My mindset behind it was if i do it before i’m 30, then I can say “hey, I did [...]

Why oh why now? huh? September 5, 2008

So now that i am done with school and have all of this free time on my hands, dudes from the past are popping up outta no where. So i had drinks with one of them last night, who could not stop telling me how proud he is of me for sticking to my guns [...]

LOOSERS September 3, 2008

one thing that i can not stand is a looser man, a weak man. Stop the fucking bullshit and man the fuck up would you please? So there is a dude that i met while on vacation last summer, you know how that goes, we kick it there, he happens to live in NY and [...]

My life stinks right now… August 26, 2008

Hmmm where do i even start? I’ve been single for over a good year now, to be exact a year and 5 months. I’ve dated here and there, usually never get to date two because date one was a hot ass mess. I just have one question…where is my prince charming? I mean i don’t [...]